Are Virgo Men Controlling?
As a Virgo man myself, I must admit that we are some controlling individuals. Virgos so controlling because we like for situations to operate correctly and have the least amount of errors as possible. Allowing others to control situations we are involved in can put us in danger so Virgos prefers to make all the decisions.
Virgos are actually great team players who don’t mind letting others control a situation but they have to explain the game plan to us first before we go along with it. The game plan definitely has to be explained to us if the situation could possibly harm us in any type of way. Most Virgos like myself have trust issues so letting someone control the narrative of my health without giving me details is a big no.
Are Virgo men controlling during a relationship?
During a relationship, Virgo men like to let their woman have more control than they normally would allow because we understand that relationships are considered a partnership too. Partnerships require two people to make decisions and not just one majority of the time. Plus, letting one person make all the decisions during a relationship isn’t a healthy idea.
For instance, if a Virgo man decides to make all the decisions during a relationship, his woman will eventually feel a type of way about his decision-making and will want to contribute. Not letting your woman contribute can cause some conflicts in the relationship like constant arguments. The arguments will surely happen more frequently if a man tries to control his woman’s actions. Most women dislike being told what they can and can’t do so Virgo men know to give their women more freedom during a relationship.
Can controlling men change?
It’s certainly possible for a controlling man to change his ways but it’s unlikely if he’ll want to. Controlling men like Virgos enjoy the power they feel when being controlling. There are not many ways to feel powerful without being bossy so men usually settle for that.
Therefore, getting a Virgo man to change his controlling tendencies can be difficult. No need to worry though, I have an alternate way for ladies to change their controlling man’s behavior. Read the paragraph below to find out how you can change your man’s bossy behavior if you’re a woman.
How to change a controlling man?
Changing a man’s controlling behavior isn’t easy but it’s surely possible. As a Virgo man who enjoys having control, I couldn’t imagine myself changing my controlling ways. Then I met a woman who made me feel powerful without having to be controlling with my decision-making.
The tactic she used to make me feel powerful was catering. Every time she cooked a meal she would bring me a plate without me asking. Her doing things for me without me having to ask caused me to be less controlling because I felt more powerful when she catered to me. Therefore women, if you’d like to change your man’s controlling behavior then you should cater to him often and you’ll notice a change in his behavior.
Where does controlling behavior come from?
Well, I can’t speak for others but I definitely know where my controlling behavior came from. I believe my controlling behavior came from me always getting what I wanted growing up with no hesitation. I hardly ever heard the word “no” when I asked for some so it developed a bossy personality for me.
I’m sure there are other situations that cause people to develop a controlling behavior but my controlling behavior comes from one situation only. Being spoiled as a young child is the primary reason for my controlling ways. Most people may get that type of behavior from emotional abuse but I haven’t been through that kind of trauma.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, Virgo men are definitely controlling. We are controlling but not in an aggressive way. Virgos won’t force a person to do anything, we’ll just do it ourselves before we force anyone to do something for us.
Once a Virgo man gets into a relationship then we become less controlling. The reason is that we understand a relationship is also a partnership and everything can’t be determined by one person. So most controlling men decide to change their ways once they get a partner. Most of us men developed controlling behavior as we were children so changing our ways once we mature don’t be difficult at all.
For some additional information about Virgo’s characteristics then you should check out Virgo Man Secrets! You’ll learn some characteristics that most Virgos haven’t even discovered about themselves yet.