What Turns A Man Off?
J. Parks
As a man, I can provide five key factors that can turn a man off sexually and mentally from a woman. Some men may not agree with these five key factors but the majority of them will. The only men who may not agree are the ones who are classified as “simps.”
In the dictionary, a simp is defined as someone foolish. My definition of a simp is a male who’s desperate for attention and affection. Any man who’s desperate for attention from a woman won’t agree with these unattractive factors since they are the type who will accept any behavior from a woman to keep her attention.
Any man who has similar characteristics as me will agree with these five unattractive elements of women. The reason is that we are the type who prefers to have a woman who lets us lead during the relationship instead of settling for what she wants all the time. The factors listed below are factors of women that an alpha male would dislike, a simp most likely wouldn’t care.
1. Constant Attitudes
The primary factor that irritates a man the most is a woman who has an attitude each and every day. Men truly dislike feeling like we are unworthy and a woman who gives us an attitude every day will make us feel that way. As a man I want to satisfy my woman as much as possible during a relationship but it’s difficult to do if she gets irritated with every decision I make.
The frequent attitudes from a woman will cause a man to want to end the relationship. Most women know that men will eventually end the relationship so they don’t show their attitude early on in the relationship. Smart women will wait till the relationship is stable before giving the male frequent attitudes so he won’t be quick to leave her. Therefore men, try to detect the attitude in women early on in the talking stage before making it official!
2. Hoarding
Women collecting items that don’t appreciate in value can be a pet peeve for men. Not all women but most women waste money on collective items and then have the nerve to have them scattered instead of them being organized. The scattering is what irritates men the most when it comes to women hoarding.
Men are actually hoarders too but we do a better job of keeping our collective items neat. We are also the type who collects items that can be sold for more than the original price. If a woman is more interested in items that don’t depreciate like art or jewelry then hoarding won’t become an issue in a relationship.
3. Not cooking as often.
Women who dislike cooking will have a difficult time keeping a man during a relationship. Everyone enjoys going out to fancy restaurants to eat but men enjoy eating a home-cooked meal a lot more. There’s something about receiving a meal while playing video games or while laying in bed that satisfies a man differently than going out to eat would.
From experience, receiving a home-cooked meal from your woman while relaxing makes a man feel like a king. Getting catered to is one of the greatest feelings for a man so when a woman does it the man tends to like her more over time. Not getting catered to at all will cause a man to drift away from his woman and look for another woman who’s willing to cater to him and make him feel like the king he is.
4. Wearing make-up too often.
Makeup is a great tool to enhance a woman’s beauty but wearing too much of it can irritate a man. I’m the type of man who dislikes women wearing makeup so often because I can’t hug and kiss her without the makeup getting on me. It’s difficult to be as affectionate as I want to be if my woman applies makeup to her face every day.
Also, the women who apply makeup to their face every day usually have their makeup brushes scattered all over the bathroom sink and that also irritates a man. Unless he has his own sink then his woman’s makeup will take up a majority of the sink and won’t leave much room for his essentials. That’s a big reason why men prefer a woman who only needs to wear makeup occasionally so their makeup won’t be scattered all over the place often.
5. Always late to events.
Men are the type who like to attend events on time because we most likely planning on leaving the event early. Women usually attend events late and stay past the ending time. Since men’s strategy is the totally opposite of that, women running late irks us because we know we are about to have to stay later than expected.
Honestly, women running late is not much of a problem since men understand that it takes time for them to do their hair and makeup. The main issue is when a woman is riding to the event with us and causes us to be late for having to wait on them. At that point we are ready to just leave them at home or start lying to them about what time the event begins so they can start getting ready hours ahead of time.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, there are roughly five key factors of a woman that will cause a man to dislike her. Constantly having an attitude, hoarding, cooking less, wearing makeup too often, and always being late are factors of women that irritate a man. Any woman who contains these factors above most likely won’t last long in a relationship with a man.
There’s an explanation for why each factor irritates a man so women can understand a man’s reasoning. Women can also use the explanations to learn how to still obtain the factors but in a way that won’t irritate a man. For instance, women wearing makeup often won’t irritate a man as long as she puts them away in a makeup bag after applying it to her face.
Women, if you want to learn some additional information about men then you can check out The Devotion System. This system has additional information on why men lose interest in women.