Are Virgo Men Players?
J. Parks
Are Virgo men players or not is a great question to want to know but before I answer that for you let’s define what being a player means to me. A player I’m defining isn’t someone who participates in sporting events. I’m referring to the type of player who can also be pronounced as “playa”.
In my opinion, a “playa” is someone who is nonchalant and doesn’t complain about their dating situation or conflicts. For example, if two people are dating and one of them decides to move on for no apparent reason but the other person doesn’t question, complain, or doesn’t try to prevent it from happening will be classified as a player. With that being said, yes Virgo men are players so be mindful of that when planning on dating one.
Many people may disagree with my definition of a player but there are multiple definitions for a player and mine is just one of many. The popular definition for a player is someone who dates multiple people at once. I believe that’s a definition for a “Mac” and not for a player since it’s difficult for players to date multiple women and have feelings for every last one of them. Only one will be dated while the other women will be in the friend zone when dealing with a Virgo man that’s a player.
How to prevent a Virgo man from becoming a player?
In order to prevent a Virgo man from becoming a player, you have to constantly grasp his attention. Any Virgo man who’s truly interested in a woman will focus on pleasing that woman as much as possible so she’ll stick by his side forever. The only way a Virgo man will put effort into pleasing a woman is if the woman shows she’s worthy though.
Therefore, a woman has to prove that she’s the one for a Virgo man or he’ll eventually develop a player personality. All it takes is for a woman to constantly show effort in the relationship and that’ll be enough proof for a Virgo man.
Most women tend to stop trying to impress their men once they become an official couple and that’s a turn-off for most men. As long as a Virgo man can tell that his partner is still interested in him then there’s no need for him to become a player.
Why do Virgo men become players?
Speaking from experience, I think Virgo men become players from feeling unwanted by their partner or someone they’re dating. Feeling unwanted will make a man assume that his woman is getting bored of his presence and plan on moving on soon. Having that kind of assumption causes a Virgo man to become nonchalant about the relationship so his feelings won’t be hurt if a breakup does happen.
Most men start dating other women to protect their feelings from a breakup with their partner but a high percentage of Virgo men don’t operate like that. Virgo men tend to protect their feelings from a breakup by becoming as careless as possible about the situation which is equivalent to being “playa”.
How to detect if a Virgo man is a player?
Instead of having to do some investigating on a man to find out if he’s a player or not, you can just spectate their actions. Noticing a Virgo man’s behavior and how they act towards you will let you know if he’s a player or not. Men who are players usually have an unbothered attitude toward serious situations.
For instance, if a woman questions them about a situation and they just brush it off without giving the woman some reassurance or a response then most likely he is a player. Players don’t care to give an explanation so be aware of that when getting to know a man.
Conclusion:
Overall, Virgo men are players but not in the way most expect. We are emotional players which means we prevent our feelings from getting hurt as much as possible. So you may notice a Virgo man being more nonchalant to certain situations than others would only because we don’t want to get affected emotionally.
There are ways to prevent a Virgo man from becoming a player but it won’t be easy. You basically have to do everything a Virgo man likes to keep him interested in you. Once he loses interest in you he’ll start showing player instincts.
The unwanted energy you give to a Virgo man is what makes him become a player the majority of the time. To find out if the energy you present is turning him into a player then you have to observe how he acts. A Virgo man’s actions will detect if he’s a player or not. For some additional information on Virgo men check out Virgo Men Secrets!